So, you know my friend
Becky?
(You know, the girl who is friends with my former roommate and when I was on that roommate's blog I saw some comment about being pregnant with twins, so I linked back to pregnant girl's blog and sort of started stalking her? Then I went to her baby shower and then I've hung out with her and her adorable boys several times? Oh and also remember how the girl who we both know is now pregnant with twins herself? And how in about a month, all 3 of us will have twins? That's crazy talk, people! But yeah, that Becky) Well, she does posts every Friday called "Fact: It's Friday" where she talks about thing unrelated to babies. She talks about herself, or relays a story from her childhood. She's invited her readers to join in, but for some reason, I never have until now. I really like the idea though. I mean, once upon a time, this blog was around before babies. Before I was shoved into the parenting world with two kids. It was just me and Josh and our poor college student adventures. I've gone back recently and looked at some of those posts and I realized how much I loved life back then
(not to say I don't love life now, you just forget what your reality was like before you have two children sometimes...) I also realized how funny I used to be. So while I get that only about 3 people read my blog before we had the babies, I'd like to talk about non baby things every now and again. I don't know if I'll have every 'fact' be about me, but Fridays are definitely going to be a day where I talk about thin that don't relate to not getting sleep, or poop, anything twin related. Capiche? Alrighty tanhen. Here's my first addition to Friday Facts.
Brittany Fact #1: In a past life, I was a dancer.
And by past life, I mean that the last dance class I took was 4 years ago. I started taking dance classes when I was 3. My mom signed
my sister and I up for
BYU Children's Dance Program and I took dance from them for an hour a week until I was 12. I then made the "company" and got bumped to more advanced classes which consisted of taking classes for 2 1/2 hours a week. The program focused primarily on modern dance. Modern dance is kind of a funny thing. It's almost a cross between contemporary dance and... interpretive? There are times where we'd would leap and spin like ballerinas and other times that we would ask like ocean waves for 3 minutes on the stage. Although
Martha Graham (a very, very famous dancer) is known to be the "mother" of Modern Dance, it's usually not a popular style in the world of dance competitions and studio classes. However, I stayed with the program until I reached high school, when I tried out for the school Dance Company and failed. I decided to stop taking dance at BYU and sign up for the intermediate class and try out for the school's team until I made it.
My high school dance teacher/coach was actually someone who I had taken classes with at BYU my last year with their children's program. She had also taught my older sister when she was on the high school dance team and I think she even taught her with BYU's program too. On one of the first few days of school, she called me in her office for a chat. She said that I was an amazing modern dancer, but I was up against girls who had much more than a modern dance background. I knew girls danced at studios, but I didn't really know what that meant. Come to find out, that usually meant 3-4 hours of dance several times a week, competitions, and private lessons/workshops. That equaled really, REALLY good dancers. Karen encouraged me to try out for dance company every chance I had until I made the team and she promised that I would eventually make the team. The timing all depended on how hard I worked at it. So, at the semester try outs a few months later, I tried again. I failed again. But at least this time I knew a little bit better what I was up against and I at least had a semester of 'other' dance experience behind my belt. Over the next semester, I continued to be in the intermediate class and spent all my time perfecting my skills because I was determined to make the team at the next try outs.
So April rolled around and I once again, put on my ridiculously tight, stretchy dance pants and tried out. I didn't expect to make it, but guess what? I did! That summer, I attended a few random dance workshops, worked out for hours each week and about a month before school started, I attended dance camp with the team.
In my intermediate classes I had taken, I was always one of the best. I don't say that to brag, but I was. I had been dancing since I was 3, so by the time I was 14, I was pretty good. Pretty good, I soon discovered, wasn't going to cut it to keep up with the girls on my team. I was definitely at the bottom of the food chain. I remember picking out 2 or 3 girls in particular to try to emulate and copy. I watched how they held their fingers, how they pointed their chin, how straight their extensions looked, and I tried to dance just like them. It was exhausting. I certainly got better, but I still had a different style and you could definitely tell I had a different dance background. I often talked to my coach, Karen, about feeling out of place because I trusted her and knew that she was in my exact spot on her high school's team. She grew up with BYU's program and had to try to keep up with the girls on her high school's team in Orem, the city just north of us. She made sure I understood that I wasn't 'worse' then they were, but different. They had jazz and ballet training and I had modern training. I needed to stop comparing my leaps and pirouettes to theirs because I didn't grow up with that. There
were things that I could do better than them, and I was contributing something to the team that nobody else could have.
I took that and ran with it. I ended up becoming an Officer for the team at the beginning of my junior year. It was sort of by default because there weren't enough seniors on the team to fulfill the positions in the dance company 'government' but I was still chosen to be a leader of the group. That included choreographing, helping decide who made the team, helping decide which dances we would preform in our concerts, etc. I'm proud to say that I held my own. I found my niche with that group of girls and ended up choreographing or co-choreographing a dance for practically every concert we put on. One of my dances was even chosen to be showcased in a regional performance at UVSC
(now UVU). I had found my place in a sea of remarkable talent.
I'm not really sure what my point is all of this is. I pretty much gave up dance when I went to college because USU only had a handful of dance classes. I took them all my freshman year and that was that. Dance career over. I'm ok with it though, because dance wasn't who I was. It was a hat that I wore. It had its purpose, taught me a LOT, provided me with wonderful memories, let me travel to New York, and made me realize that I can hold my own with a group of people who have amazing talent. Really, the girls on my team were winning national competitions and getting scholarships to dance schools and making college teams. And there I was, a girl with a decent background in a "weird" genre of dance that was able to sort of keep up with them. I just had to stop trying to be exactly like them. I had to find my place among them and excel from there.
It's a lesson I carried with me to college and even have tapped into it with parenting.
Oh and by the way, few days ago I tried busted out a pirouette in the kitchen just to see what happened and I was able to stick a double. It wasn't the triple I used to be able to do, but for a mother of two that hasn't danced in four years, I didn't think that was too shabby.
This mama's still got it... sort of... ;)